Thursday, October 29, 2009

An Inch Away

So, I took my last pregnancy drive yesterday. My belly is literally one inch away from the steering wheel, and doc says that once I can no longer fit behind the steering wheel comfortably, I can no longer drive. *sigh* What a trapped feeling- it is like I am 15 again, with no way of going where I need/want to go, when I want to go. Or like when I broke my ankle 7 years ago. I have to rely on the kindness of a scheduled chauffer. Silliness.


I had an OBGYN appointment yesterday. It went well. My personal OBGYN is back from maternity leave and she and I have now switched places! She is thin again and I am...well...not thin. My face is puffy and my tummy is big and hard- filled with a perfectly sized baby boy. My blood pressure is good, all my tests have come out well, my weight is on track, and (with the exception of the many little pregnancy complaints- not sleeping, leg & back cramps, daily tummy troubles, Braxton Hicks contractions, exhaustion, irritability and frustration, nesting) I am a healthy pregnant woman. The baby is great as well, from what the doc saw: he is measuring right on target, his heartbeat is strong and regular, and he moves often. *whew*

We have a new Baby Bump photo up. You can check it out in the Photos section of this website. Click on the Photos tab in the upper left, then click on Baby Bump and click on the arrows- it is like playing with one of those old-fashioned cartoon flip books you did in art class as a kid. You get to watch my belly (and face and boobs) grow as the pregnancy progresses. Hilarious. We will be posting Nursery pics after the Baby Showers my friends and family have planned, so stay tuned to that Photo tab in the next few weeks.

For this week: 1) Michael and I are having an Anniversary!!! Yay! We had our big costume weddin g on Halloween years ago and are still going strong. We have received many sweet Anniversary gifts (thank you Aunt Marty and Aunt Tracy and Mom Kathy) and well-wishes from family and friends for our Anniversary and thank everyone so much for the love and support we have received over the years in our marriage. As a bonus, my Mom volunteered to stop smoking as an Anniversary gift to us and the baby! How cool is that? I can't wait to hug my smoke-free Mommy. 2) We are attending the annual Halloween Bash thrown by our good friends Leon and Elaine. Still not sure what our costumes are gonna be! We are thinking of recycling some costumes from the past (whatever will fit over my ever-growing belly will work just fine!). 3) Michael installed the car seat. Now we have to get it inspected. 4) I had my monthly lunch and gab-fest with my friend Meagan yesterday. It is always such a treasure to be able to vent and talk and decompress with a girlfriend about everything that bugs me, as well as everything that makes me happy. It is also nice to have the company of someone who feels just as comfortable to do it back. 5) We had our on-going Birthing Class yesterday. We learned about pediatricians and a little basic baby info. 6) We have pediatrician interviews (FYI: to interview them during prenatal time is free) with some doctors who are in our insurance network. The OBGYN recommends that we interview a couple of pediatricians and make a decision as to which one would be best for us and the care of our baby. 7) Michael and I will be picking up my Mom from my brother's house on Sunday after my haircut. She is gonna help for a week with all the heavier things I can't do around the house any more and I, therefore, have been putting off for the last few weeks. It is so nice that my bro and his gal have had her in Tucson available for me during the pregnancy. Mom will also be here for about a week during Thanksgiving.

Monday, October 19, 2009

The Masked Mommy

Sorry it has been a few weeks since our last blog. Here are the updates on life, liberty, and the pursuit of (pregnant) happiness in the Boyd-Martin household:


1) I got sick. Yucky, nasty, phlegmy sick. I was so lucky that I received my flu shot about a month ago, b/c the sickness could have been tons worse, according to the doc. I caught a cold, accompanied by severe tinnitus (ringing in ears) and pharyngitis (raw, sore throat/pharynx). What makes a common cold so awful when you are pregnant, you ask? You can't take the "typical" OTC and prescribed meds to get rid of the symptoms! Ahhhh!!!! Thankfully, the cold itself lasted about a week (I still am coughing up goo, though), but it was sooo not fun. Lozenges, Tylenol, fluids, rest (which is ridiculously hard to get when one is 8 months pregnant), being around as few people as possible, and force-feeding myself small, children's doses of Robitussin were all I was allowed. My fever never got above 100 degrees, which was all my doctor really worried about since a high fever (usually accompanied with the dreaded flu) is bad for both baby and mother. I feel better now, but not quite 100% yet. I wasn't even allowed to go to my Birthing Class last Wednesday, which was regretful. Michael and I will be making-up what we missed next class (sick pregnant women are not supposed to be around anyone else, let alone OTHER pregnant women, I learned). In fact, when I went to see the doctor, the office gave me a surgical mask I had to wear while in the office (hence, the title of this blog journal). Those suckers are really hard to breathe out of when one's nose is stuffed-up and congested, btw!

2) I am in my 8th month! Exciting and new. And painfully sharp. By that I mean: sharp, incessant pains in my lower calves and lower back. *ouch* Once a lady hits the 8th month (after 32 weeks gestation), she is asked not to travel further away than a 1 hour drive, and in fact to only get in a car for short drives to/from places if needed (the docs really frown upon a pregnant woman like myself finding herself too far from her hospital as full-term status approaches). For those of ya'll who aren't in the know, full-term is considered 37 weeks, but Michael and I learned that pre-term labor (labor before 37 weeks) is pretty common in our country. The scientists don't really know why.

3) We had a sick kitty for about a week, too, but our youngest cat is now better and seems to be feeling more like himself.

4) We received a Target gift card as a baby present from Denise! Thanks Denise!!! We can't wait to go pick out little baby things with your generous gift! Our little man is on his way to being the best dressed baby on the block.

5) There are new pics in the Family Photos section (thank you, Michael, for putting all the photos up on our website. I can tell you are a proud father already). Click on the Photos tab in the upper, left- hand corner, then click on Family Photos and scroll the pages until you find the newest ones.

6) Our last OBGYN appointment went well. I talked with the doctor about my highly irregular sleep patterns and my growing anxiety and irritability. She said that women often go through all this in the third trimester due to increasing hormones, increasing discomfort due to size and position of baby, and a lower immune system. Oh joy. Our mini-man seems to be good though. The baby's heart rate is 139. He is measuring 30.5 (again, back to being a little small, but he has growth spurts here and there which usually make up for it). I have gained 3 pounds in the last 2 weeks (the baby is gaining an average of 1/2 pound a week now until his birth, which is contributing to my current weight gain significantly). In fact, the baby weighs about 4+ pounds right now, and measures about 18 inches in length! Radical little man, isn't he? he astonishes us everyday.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Fun Vegas, High Hormones, and 2 Months to Go!!!

The Boys (Michael and my brothers) are happy to report that they had a fun time in Las Vegas! They saw the Cirque Du Soliel: Ka show at the MGM, went to a Circus Circus Haunted House, ate at the Bellagio buffet, and got free drinks while gambling for 3 days/2 nights. While the boys played, the girls relaxed. We (Me, my Mom, and Adam's fiance) went to museums and high tea at Tohono Chul Park while the boys were away. Mom bought the baby a cute shirt from the International Wildlife Museum that reads "Wild Thing" on it. My Mom stayed the rest of the weekend with me and she and I had a relaxing time, complete with dinner at Lookout Bar and Grill, brunch at Gold Restaurant, and a little bit of lovely pampering- something every pregnant woman and her Mom needs. Pictures will be posted very soon in the Family Photos section of our respective weekend. The only downside to the weekend was that there was mass confusion as to who would pick the boys up at the airport- which got this already weepy pregnant woman very frazzled.


OMG- we still have so much to do!!! We have to install the car seat and have it inspected. We have to wash all the baby bedding & clothes and put them away. We have to baby proof & clean the house and stock up on quick-fix foods. We have Baby Showers in a month. And Michael and I start our hospital-sanctioned Birthing Classes tonight. We are gonna learn breathing techniques for labor, when to call the doctor & go to the hospital during labor, postpartum info, what to do in case of emergency during the rest of pregnancy, coaching, pain relief and medication options, when to call family to the hospital, what to bring to the hospital, etc. AHHH!! My mind is totally full of baby info now; I don't even want to think about how much more there is to learn. *sob*

Our baby boy moves all the time- which is awesome. My heart rate is still really fast, my blood pressure is good, my blood sugar is good. His heart beat is perfect, and he is measuring a little big for his gestational age (he measured 30.5 weeks at our last appt- when he was about 29 weeks along- he has always measured a little small before, but I guess that is all normal). The odd thing is that I have actually been losing weight!!! Even though I am swelling, have edema (face, hands, feet puff up), and my Baby Bump is getting bigger (see Baby Bump Photo in Photo section for proof), I have lost a few pounds. How??!! My doctor doesn't seem concerned at this point, so that is a good sign. I have been feeling: hotter, itchier, more tired, more hip and perennial pains, more intense Braxton Hicks, stronger fetal movement, and waaaay more hormonal and irritable for the past few weeks- I have been told and read that it is all "normal," but I feel very vulnerable and exhausted all the time. Emotionally, I have a lot of excitement mixed with trepidation over: money, family, the health if the baby, labor, delivery, housing, trust/will, and postpartum issues. In short: I am driving myself crazy. Any other woman out there feel this way in the last weeks/months of pregnancy?? I will be officially full-term in 6 weeks, and his official due date is in 9 weeks, and I am scared about a lot of crazy things- my mind is racing. I want my hubby. I want my mommy. I want to go back to sleep....

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Yesterday was a fun day! Mom, Adam, Brandi, Chris, Michael and I went to our local 3D/4D Ultrasound clinic and received photos, a still image cd, and a video of our little man in utero. What an amazing experience! Our little Tigger has a little bit of hair on his head (it is white right now), and he is a little less than 3 lbs at the moment. His heartbeat is strong and perfect at 147 beats per minute. To see photos of him (cute captions included) just go to our Photos tab of the home page (top left hand corner on this website), then click 29 Week 3D Photos. Click on the first photo to enlarge the photo and start the slideshow. You can click on the arrow on the right to see the next photo in the line-up. You can also access these photos by clicking on the Prenatal Photos section on the home page of the website, if that is easier for you.


Also, we will have an updated Baby Bump photo tonight (yep, it has been 4 weeks since the last one- time is flying!!! Before we know it, he will be here with either Thanksgiving or Christmas bells on). To see my Belly Baby Bump growth, click on the Photos tab on the home page of this website, then click on the Baby Bump tab. You can see how my belly has looked from 9 weeks pregnant to now (29 weeks pregnant) by clicking the arrows to the right of the photos once you enlarge them.

Non-baby news: We have been intently house hunting in the Northwest area lately, and are looking to possibly rent out our current home some time next year. With prices and interest rates being so low, we feel this may be a good time to buy our next family home (but not a good time to sell our current home, of course).

Tomorrow morning, we will be going in for another Prenatal visit to the OBGYN. The doctor will check his growth and heart beat- and my vitals, per usual. I will be seeing the OBGYN every two weeks for a little while. I look forward to the appointments- it makes me feel good to make sure he is on track, even if these visits do seem a bit routine.

My symptoms so far in the third trimester: exhaustion for days on end, followed by days of sleeplessness and "nesting." My heart rate is still pretty darn fast, even when I am not doing much, which makes it more difficult to exercise (which can be really frustrating). Indigestion and heartburn are murderous- every few days or so, I have to lay upright on the couch (yes, still) for at least half the night before I can go to bed in order to calm my squished tummy. The nausea only gets really bad now when I get too hot, or too full after eating. My nails aren't as long and strong as they were for the first 6 months of pregnancy (my fingernails are getting kinda brittle, even), but my hair and skin still look great! I am getting "Mommy face" (my face is becoming fuller due to edema- swelling caused by excess fluid in my tissues). My weight gain is about 17 lbs total so far (I still need to gain between 8-13 more lbs by the end of my pregnancy in order to meet my doctor's goal weight for me). I may have more to report tomorrow after my OBGYN appointment so stay tuned...

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Bouncers and Swingers

Nope- not the kind of bouncers and swingers YOU are thinking of...   These bouncers are the cute little bouncy seats that infants bounce around in before they can walk- and the swings in question are the cute little seat swings that babies are rocked to sleep in.  Michael's Mom got us both items from our registry- and they are sooo cute (little jungle monkey-themed contraptions we will probably keep in the living room).  Michael's Granny bought us precious little onesies/ body suits embroidered with little saying like "Daddy's little recruit,"  "I'm Nuts about Grandpa," "Grandma Loves Me," Am I cute or What?," What Santa Doesn't Bring Me, Grandma Will," Mommy Loves Me," and one with monkeys all over it.  Hehehehe.  Our little man is stylin' already.

I had my last Dr appt on Monday, and the OBGYN says everything looks great- he is measuring perfectly, my blood pressure is 122/73, his hb is 142, my weight gain is perfect, and all the questions we had were answered; also, we need to pick a pediatrician soon (any suggestions?), and she strongly suggested to us that all people caring for a pregnant woman or infant (even for a short time) get flu shots, since the new flu strain is circulating already.  Michael and I are planning on getting ours this weekend, and we will probably take my Mom to get hers too while she is here.  Anyone with medical insurance in the U.S. usually has the flu shot covered under their insurance.  My next appointment is in 2 weeks (the start of the third trimester means the OBGYN visits increase from once every 4 weeks to once every 2 weeks; eventually the visits increase to once a week).  I also received my glucose and anemia blood tests while I was at the appointment.  I have yet to hear back from the doctor as to what the results were, but right now I am assuming no news is good news.  If I don't receive a phone call from the dr office by Tuesday, I will call them for the results (I hate not hearing back when tests are done).

We started taking our hospital-sanctioned prenatal classes this past week.  Our first class was a Parent CPR/Safety Class- it was informative and we received lots of literature to take home about safety/ first aid/ Heimlich maneuver/ cpr in regards to children and infants.  The instructor recommended anyone who wants to learn more about those things, and who doesn't have the time or money for the classes, to google how to do and train themselves and ask someone who knows how to do it- you never know; it could save a life. 

We broke down and bought independent life insurance this past week.  Michael and I are now insured through Allstate and have to receive a physical.  Yuck.  The lady who tests such things for Allstate will be at our home on Sunday, drawing blood and samples, and checking our vitals and weight (I think it should be illegal to check a pregnant woman's weight...hmmm...I wonder if I can petition to have that stopped?  *sigh*).  Our next step is to write a Trust, in which our Will will reside.  Oh, the fun (i.e. morbid) things you think about when there is a new life on the way....

Our camera broke a few weeks back, so we mailed it into Canon (apparently there was a recalled, defective piece in the camera that needed to be fixed).  The repair was free, of course, but it was inconvenient for us (we only had Michael's camera phone available to us for picture taking- this is why our last Baby Bump pic of my growing belly was so dark).  Speaking of, for those of you who want to see pictures on this website, please click on the Photos tab in the upper left-hand corner, then click on whatever photo tab interests you: family photos, baby bump, new car, or prenatal photos.  Enjoy!  There will be many more photos added soon, since we now have our camera back from the shop.  Yippee!!!

My Mom has been staying with us for the past week in order to help this big ol' pregnant woman with the housework.  My brother Adam and his fiance were cool enough to loan Mom to us (she is staying with them during my pregnancy/the first few weeks of the baby's life- see past blog journals for details).  She has been such a help: cooking, cleaning, landscaping, Halloween decorating, etc.  With my growing belly and sense of balance becoming quite a hindrance, and Michael working full-time, catching up on chores can be a hassle.  I have a list of chores I need to do, but can't, that she has been taking care of.  Very helpful.

Next weekend will bring our 3d/4d Ultrasound!  We are so psyched to see our little man in live action (yes, we will be posting the video clips and pics in our Photos section as soon as they are available).  How exciting!  Pray that he is active and healthy and is a "ham" for the camera- just like his Mommy.  *grin*

In a couple weeks, the "men" will be having a weekend in Vegas...a "Man-cation," if you will.  My brothers and hubby will take a Las Vegas excursion together in early October.  My Dad will be in Arkansas, visiting his mother on her birthday, but the rest of the family guys will take Vegas by storm!  My youngest brother Chris will be graduating from college with his Bachelor's in Computer Science soon, and my hubby and brother Adam are taking him to Sin City for the weekend.  Should be a good time for them- not to mention a stress reliever for us gals while they are away.  Brandi (my brother's fiance), my Mom, and I will spend that Saturday together.  We three girls plan on visiting museums and going for tea at a local Tea House- you know, girly stuff.  The rest of the weekend will be for relaxation- my mom will be staying with me, while Brandi will relish having the house to herself- or spending time with her girlfriends/ family too.  The boys will enjoy shows and gambling and sight-seeing, while we chics will have a blissful, restful weekend.   Can you say "Ahhhhhh....?"

Friday, September 11, 2009

Nesting

My house is pretty darn close to spotless.  Seriously.  Between Michael, my Mom, and (mostly) me, our house looks amazingly clean.  According to the books, "nesting syndrome" (laymen's terms: obsessively preparing one's home for a baby) usually occurs in the latter part of the third trimester.  For me, it seems to have struck a little early.  What I can't do, or don't feel well enough to do, I have had my Mom or Michael do by writing out a list of monthly chores that need to be taken care of.  From painting to attending classes to dusting to cleaning to redecorating/decorating to house hunting to installing shelves- the list goes on and on...AND there is still more to do!  AHHHH!

On tap for the week: I get paid tomorrow!  Woopee!  And we have dinner with friends scheduled Saturday night.  And Michael and I start Parent CPR classes this weekend.  And we are having a family dinner on Sunday night.  And my Mom is staying a week with us (to help me out again).  And I have another doctor appointment and blood test on Monday (wish me and the baby luck).  And we have a charity event on Tuesday.  Sprinkle work, nausea, back pain, indigestion, exhaustion, and more nesting to this schedule and you have a recipe for the next week of my life.  I am tired just thinking about it. 

Things to watch for in my pregnancy: 1) Braxton Hicks contractions: (I have been having these since about 20 weeks, but they are getting more and more frequent and a little stronger)  I usually get them a few times a day, but sometimes more.  For those of you unfamiliar with Braxton Hicks contractions: they occur when the uterus tightens and contorts in a practice preparation for labor.  They are very common and can start as early as 17 weeks of pregnancy.  They are usually painless, but can definitely cause some pain here and there when the stomach tightens in a crampy kinda way.  It really sucks when I am standing upright and then immediately roll forward when my tummy clenches in pain.  2) Back Aches & leg cramps: with the belly growing larger and larger, the back takes a beating and begins to hurt- especially the lower back.  Makes it kinda difficult to stand straight sometimes.  3) Navel: still an inny to report.  But a shallow inny.  I mean really shallow.  Could pop out and become an outy any second kinda inny.  4) Balance: whooo!  I turn my head too fast sometimes and then trip on my own two feet.  This did not help my sprained ankle situation (see past blogs).  5) Indigestion: worse than any indigestion one could ever feel.  I can't tell you how awful and nauseating pregnancy indigestion can be.  Sleeping upright becomes a necessity sometimes. 

Things the baby is doing: 1) Growing!  He is growing so much in the next month!  He is 2 lbs right now and almost 15 inches in height!  2) his eyes are wide open when he is awake (he doesn't have pigmentation in the eyes yet, so his little peepers have no color), and he can blink now.  Radical.  3) Sense of hearing is growing more and more acute.  He can recognize Michael and mine's voices (even tho they are muffled to him) and get really agitated when a loud noise startles him.  4) Baby kickboxing.  I swear we will never have to enroll him in martial arts because he already has a black belt in kicking-the-snot-out-of-Mommy's-tummy.  His movements get stronger and stronger each week it seems.  I read that as he gets bigger he may not kick as much as squirm as my due date approaches.  5) Brain development: his little brain is kicking into high gear as his synapses fire and begin to respond to more stimuli.  All so exciting!

Thursday, September 3, 2009

99 Bottles of Milk on the Wall...

Sooo... if "Tigger" Martin, Jr. is actually born on his Estimated Due Date (a rarity for babies), he will enter the world in 99 days!!! Hence this blog's title. And the milk is what he'll be drinking. Eventually, he'll drink the milk from a bottle. *wink* I am a clever mother, no?

Within the next 99 days, we have so much planned: endless Dr appointments, a 3d/4d ultrasound scan, tests, infant First Aid/CPR classes, birthing classes, breastfeeding classes, baby care basics classes, baby showers, family visits, friends, nursery decorating, pregnancy/labor/baby book reading...and somewhere in all this Michael and I have to squeeze in work, chores, and romance! Nobody ever said having a baby was easy, huh?

We also are looking at the many housing opportunities out here in Tucson now. With this "buyer's market," we are considering buying more land/house in a few years. Our little 1200sf house is perfect for we 3 right now, but we may need more room in the future, so it is good to keep an open mind to the possibilities out here, right? So much to think about when "we" becomes 3. My head may explode right along with my stomach.

Speaking of my stomach: guess what?! Our little boy is now 2 lbs!!! Next time you are at the supermarket, pick up a 2 lb roast or ground beef- just to see what the weight and size is. THAT size baby is what I have in my belly right now. And speaking of belly: guess who has an updated belly Baby Bump picture up on this website!? Me! Go to Photos tab, then Baby Bump tab and look at the progression my tummy has made over the last 6months. Amazing. I now literally look like I have a soccer ball growing out of my lower abdomen. Total weight gain with this pregnancy so far: approximately 15 lbs. I should gain another 10-15 lbs before he is born, to make sure he has all he needs to be strong and healthy at birth. I'll be coming up on 7 months very soon and I am so excited! I am especially excited to hear his heartbeat again in less than 2 weeks at our next OBGYN appointment. That is the best sound ever. And to feel him move again in my tummy. That is the best feeling ever. And to see his cute little face at our next ultrasound. That is the best image ever. I could go on and on and on...


Special thanks goes out: to my Mom for making me embroidered baby onesies and for getting me some fabric ribbon- I am using the ribbon to make the hanging contraption for my "100 Acre Woods" decorative sign I made for the nursery; to Michael's Mom & Dad for going on our "Think Geek" online registry (listed on this website's home page) and snagging many cute baby/maternity items for our future geek-in-training; to Adam and Brandi, for flying my mom out here and volunteering their home as Mom's guest-quarters while Mom helps us every few weeks throughout the remainder of my pregnancy; to our friends Brett and Casie, for all their help keeping us current with baby trends and advice; to Elaine and Leon & our Dinner crew, for providing me with much needed friendly socialization; to my Concord girlfriends who always find time to keep me in the loop and send me jokes and well-wishes; to my Aunt Marty, who helped us purchase our nursery glider/ottoman, nursery decor, & many baby items; to my Dad, who helped us purchase our car seat and changing table; to my friend Belinda, who helped us purchase our crib; and to my girlfriend Meagan, for pampering me once a month during my second and upcoming third trimester. And a thanks to all of you I haven't mentioned who provide love and support for us. We are truly blessed.